Your marriage is facing problems and you desperately need help to save your marriage. However, everyone around you is giving vague tips about forgiving your spouse, stop criticizing your spouse and learn to communicate more effectively with your spouse. You have tried everything but you are still not seeing the result. To save your marriage, you need to start doing certain things right now!
Identify and Work on your own personal issues!
Problems in a marriage are never caused or the responsibility of only one spouse. You are partly to be blamed. You need to sort out your personal issues, your emotional issues you brought into the marriage as well as issues with your spouse.
Identify and Resolve conflicts!
Unless you can identify your contribution to the conflict in your marriage, problems will never be resolved. You may need a neutral third party or a marriage counselor to help you while you and your spouse try to work things out. If both of you always end up shouting at each other every time you try to talk, real progress can never happen.
Have a cooling down period away from each other!
A cooling down period is good for both of you. It does not matter that you just found out that your spouse wants a divorce or the topic of divorce has been talked about for a while. Take this cooling period to gather your thoughts. Find ways to address the problems in the marriage rather than focus on blaming your spouse.
Patience is a virtue!
Trying to save your marriage can never be done in one day. It is an effort put in by both of you over a period of time. It requires dedication, commitment and patience.
It is time to spend quality time with each other!
Most marriage problems start because couples do not spend quality time with each other as often. When the marriage problems start to surface, more time is spend apart. Take time to do things and focus on activities both of you enjoy.
Your marriage problems will never get better on its own unless you take action now and make things work.
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